Have ever loved someone so much but somehow that person never returns it??
You say you love that person..but do you really?? Emily has been doing a lot of thinking over the past few...days.
After few experiments and analysis, she has come up with her own theory!Mwahahahaha.
There's a difference between loving someone and.....ASKING to be loved.
Really.You feel that you love that person,you want to be around them all the time, but then you get so hurt and angry when they don't return it.
Truth is, you're just thirsty for their love. You want to be loved. You don't really love them.
That's why sometimes you suffocate people. Its because you keep asking them to love you.Forcing them.
If you ask the right person, then its all cool!But if you ask to be loved from someone who lacks love him/herself then..you're barking up the wrong tree.(erm..wut does this phrase mean really?Juz use it cause it seems to fit.hahah).When both of you need the same thing, it doesn't really click.Imagine a poor person begging for money from sumone who has no money at all. Does the poor person has the right to be so damn angry at the person who can't give money to him??
Let's give en example to differentiate between giving love and asking to be loved:
Your parents.They love you.You love them.Why??You're not around them all the time.You don't even talk to them about everything.You don't go out on 'dates' with them.But sumhow,u know that the love exists for them. Because they show their love for you. They make sure you have what you need. Provide things for you to have a better future. And..they SHOWED their love, they don't ask to be loved. They don't go to you and ask if u love them or wutever.So naturally, you just love them.
Is my theory acceptable??Understandable?(eh does this word exists)Reasonable??
Yahoo!Emily cracks the code!!Hek..
Erm..for those of you who have not been in this situation..just ignore this crap.
SO...moral of the story..uh..theory..if u love sumone just show them.don't expect to be loved back cause you're the one who gets hurt in the end.just love them and do your own business.In our case,STUDYING. Don't waste your time chasing after someone's love or trying to make sumone loves you. It comes..naturally.
Our goal at Taylor's: TER more than 85% and fly to Aussie/Nz, not finding your life partner.
Out!
5 comments:
so true.
so so true.
maybe.
x terkate.
u shud write more.i like.
Hmmm..
Untuk minta dicintai..
Bukankah ia satu fitrah?
Untuk rasa dilindungi,
Dan rasa disayangi.
Salahkah memohon secebis hati,
Sekelumit rasa,
Agar tahu,
Ada yang sayang kiranya.
errr
jiwang giler mamat tuu!!
hahahahhaa!!
well, something in ur post triggered something and it made me realize mistakes that ive done.
thanks for that
however, agak sedih a, when u love that someone so much and u cant expect them to show their love to you proportionaly as urs to them.
macam pasrah je
anyway, yes love for the sake of loving. not for the sake of hoping to be loved back.
erm...bley tahan jgk ko ni..hehe=p
cm xcaye lak...
congratz r sbb jiwang jgk..huhu`
Thanks for the comments.Huhu Alice,so busy to find the time to write.And not everyone loves my writing.
First of all,sorry kalau ade org terase.Sesungguhnye blog ak sntiase buat org trase(itulah sebb ak kini 'blogless').hehe.
nevva winter(spe ye..??),sume org mau disayangi.x slah..tapi..my point is..jgn pkse org syg kte.jgn la slahkan org ble dy x syg kte.maybe kte punye mistake jge.(sperti artistic 1412 admit).
Ak tlis ni ikut p'laman both sides(ye Hani,ak ade p'saan jge..haha).Ak pnah syg gle kt org tp x dibalas.ak pun frust dn bnci org tu.Pastu..ade plak situation dimane ade org syg kt aku tp ak lak x ley return.Dh tu ak x ley syg dy,dy x nk keep in touch la,ape la.free2 je ak hilang kwan.
Dari stu le baru ak sdar yg kte x ley pkse org tu..ak pun sdar ksilapan ak dlu..
klo kte btul2 syg org tu,kte mesti nk bwat dy hepi or wutever.Bkannye marah dy sbb x mampu syg kte blek.
Hua,dh la!Kg comment ni jd post blog bru lak.
ak bkan dewi cinta.
Sje nk luah hati.Tak tau lak ley jdi gini.
hahaha.
Dah,study2.
Jdi bdak skema.
Hehe.
-Emily-
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